Enrichment Lesson It’s my garden and I will cultivate it any way I like. I consider myself a modern woman; well educated, sexually liberated and socially aware. However I recently suffered a rude awakening. A few days after we first got naked, my latest sexual encounter asked, “So have...
Enrichment Lesson The most attractive quality of all is being comfortable with who I am. After my bi-lateral mastectomy, I thought I was no longer a woman. My sexuality disappeared in the operating theatre along with my breasts. I decided that it was a “good” thing that I...
Enrichment Lesson Beauty isn't just about the skin. To ease my angst as a first date with seriously hot guy approached, who else would I seek advice from but my good friend and beauty therapist (BT)? The date in question had emailed me some rather artistic but nude...
Enrichment Lesson Personal growth is empowering but difficult to accomplish without some heartache. Is it possible to be friends with an ex? I have segued several times from friendship to romantic relationship but to date a successful transition in the other direction has eluded me. I recently...
Enrichment Lesson Seduce my mind and you can have my body. Find my soul and I am yours for ever. Women are romantic creatures at heart. Sure we are attracted to the physical. I would be hard pressed to name one of my friends that hasn't at...
Enrichment Lesson If you've already decided the destination the outcome is inevitable. Dating does my head in. I just want to skip this bit and go straight to the end. Sort of like in Monopoly Board when you draw the “Proceed Straight to Go” card. Trouble is...
Enrichment Lesson True contentment is derived from self-love and acceptance. I am afraid of rejection, who isn’t? However the good Dr G put it to me recently that what I am really afraid of is intimacy. There are many aspects of intimacy that frighten me; losing my individuality,...
Enrichment Lesson Sometimes it's not all about me. There is nothing like the excitement of getting caught up in the thrill of possibilities. It’s like being a child waking up on Christmas morning. Take relationships, I love that I can still get excited about a first date...